WHY BEING A GIRL IS THE BEST: * we can wear guys clothes. If they wear ours, they get funny looks. * Our friends don’t say hello to us by punching us on the arm. * Yeah, PMS sucks. but at least we have a good excuse to eat chocolate for a week. * If we’re on a really big ship that happens to hit an iceberg, we’ll get lifeboats first. * We get the bigger apartment on Friends. * Girl talk. you know, how we just understand each other without having to explain stuff. * We never have to stand in a urinal and have other girls stare at us. * Dark circles under the eyes? a hickey? we can just cover them up with a little concealer. * We don’t have to shave our faces. * We can jump around a lot and shake our hair and it looks like we know how to dance.  * We get yummy chocolates and flowers from guys. * We don`t have to dowse our food in tabasco sauce just to look tough. * That whole circumcision thing! * When we get married, we get to keep our own name or choose the one that we like better. * We don`t have to deal with sideburns. what`s up with those anyway? * At least one girl always survives in horror flicks. * We never have to wear tighty-whities.. or jock straps! * Even if we are ugly, we have make up to fix it. * We can take stuffed animals to bed no matter how old we are. * Nose hair, ear hair, back hair - so not a problem for us. * Slumber parties! guys just don`t know how much fun those are. * We don`t have to worry about getting hurt, um, down there. * That special bond we have with our moms-some day. * We don`t feel the need to slap our teammates butt when she makes a good play. * Nobody makes fun of us for liking the backstreet boys or n'sync. well, almost nobody. * pick up lines. they`re not something we need to practice. * We can get away with wearing platform shoes without looking goofy. * We give really good advice. * On tv shows we`re always the ones that have the coolest super powers. * dollhouse, delias, XOXO, wetseal, abercrombie, etc. * we can put cottonballs between our toes, paint our nails, and not feel the least bit silly. * the coolest, sweetest songs and poems have been written about us. * We don`t have to sit on our wallets. * Our wallets have a place for change. * Our lives do not revolve around ESPN or sports center. * it`s not required that we learn how to spit when we`re young. * We are called tomboys, boys are called girly. * We have nicer handwriting than guys. well, it`s true. * We don`t have to stuff boxers in our jeans. * Female pro athletes aren`t overpaid egomaniacs. * Girls with guy first names (like BELL) sound cool, but it doesn`t work the other way around.

be yourself yeahhh !

"It hurts to look at yourself in the mirror and hate yourself, look into the mirror and wonder what ever happened to that smile that used to shine so bright. When you look at yourself, you see this version of "you" that your mind has created, someone that has become so distant and cold that nobody wants to be around her. Empty eyes. Fragile bones. The only thing you have left are the lies you tell yourself everyday to survive, lies that have become your painful reality, lies that will swallow you whole and crush your insides, lies that have turned you into someone you never wanted to be.."
Congratulations! You're not perfect! It's ridiculous to want to be perfect anyway. But then, everybody's ridiculous sometimes, except perfect people. You know what perfect is? Perfect is not eating or drinking or talking or moving a muscle or making even the teensiest mistake. Perfect is never doing anything wrong - which means never doing anything at all. Perfect is boring! So you're not perfect! Wonderful! Have fun! Eat things that give you bad breath! Trip over your own shoelaces! Laugh! Let somebody else laugh at you! Perfect people never do any of those things. All they do is sit around and sip weak tea and think about how perfect they are. But they're really not one-hundred-percent perfect anyway. You should see them when they get the hiccups! Phooey! Who needs 'em? You can drink pickle juice and imitate gorillas and do silly dances and sing stupid songs and wear funny hats and be as imperfect as you please and still be a good person. Good people are hard to find nowadays. And they're a lot more fun than perfect people any day of the week.
Do you ever get that feeling where you don't want to talk to anybody? You don't want to smile and you don't want to fake being happy. But at the same time you don't know exactly what's wrong either. There isn't a way to explain it to someone who doesn't already understand. If you could want anything in the world it would be to be alone. People have stopped being comforting and being along never was. At least when you're alone no one will constantly ask you what is wrong and there isn't anyone who won't take 'I don't know' for an answer. You feel the way you do just because. You hope the feeling will pass soon and that you will be able to be yourself again, but until then all you can do is wait.

Forget what you heard, recognize what you see. I know you heard the rumors... now here's the real me